by Bo Marchionte
@bomarchionte | College2Pro.com
Published November 3, 2026, 8:43 AM
Forget the NFL Stardom. Jalen Ramsey Wants a Hug, and Robert Spears-Jennings Just Wants His Dog
I’m guilty of it. Hell, most of us are.
We see a football player and immediately start calculating what he can do for us. Maybe he’s a fixture on our fantasy roster. Maybe his next touchdown means a few extra dollars in our pocket. Maybe his missed tackle just ruined our Sunday.
Somewhere between the gambling slips, fantasy points and television contracts, we occasionally forget there’s an actual human being underneath the helmet.
A guy who misses his kids.
Another who just wants to see his dog.
Funny how a league built around extraordinary human beings can make us forget how wonderfully ordinary their lives become when nobody’s watching.
The Pittsburgh Steelers are 6-2, sitting comfortably atop the AFC North following Sunday’s 27-6 dismantling of the Cleveland Browns.
Eight weeks of football.
Now comes the bye week.
For the coaching staff, it’s an opportunity to evaluate eight games of football and prepare for the next nine. For the players, it’s a chance to get reacquainted with the people, places and little things that make the other 17 weeks’ worth enduring.
After Sunday’s victory, I caught up witth several Steelers to ask about their plans for the break.
For a few minutes, football was the least interesting thing in the room.
And the answers were better than anything you’d find on a stat sheet.
Jalen Ramsey has spent a decade making life miserable for NFL receivers.
He’s earned the accolades, collected the money and established himself among football’s most versatile defensive backs.
But this season has introduced something unfamiliar to the veteran.
For the first time in his career, Ramsey is living in an NFL city without his family.
“Living in Pittsburgh is the first time that I have went to a city without my family,” Ramsey explained. “My family has stayed back home in Texas, so I am going back home to be with my family, my kids immediately.”
Immediately.
There’s something beautiful about that word.
Just a father wanting to get home.
I asked Ramsey whether his children were still young enough to make a big production out of Dad walking through the front door.
The kind of greeting where little feet start moving before the door has even closed.
His answer offered a glimpse of a man the television cameras rarely introduce.
“That is the best part,” Ramsey said. “Usually, the best part of my day is when I walk in the door and they all run up to me and then we go have whatever type of fun they want to have.”
Think about that for a moment.
An NFL superstar who has spent years performing in front of thousands of screaming fans finds his greatest satisfaction in a much smaller audience.
His children.
No crowd cheering for No. 5.
Just Dad.
And whatever adventure those little minds have planned for him.
A few lockers away, rookie safety Robert Spears-Jennings is experiencing the NFL from the opposite end of the career spectrum.
Ramsey has spent years navigating the demands of professional football. Spears-Jennings is still discovering what those demands actually mean.
His first NFL bye week brings the expected responsibilities.
“Headed home, treatment, recovery. Get the body back right. Mental reset, stuff like that,” Spears-Jennings explained.
Perfectly reasonable football-player stuff.
But I wanted to know what he was genuinely looking forward to doing once he escaped the daily routine.
“Go see my dog, bro. I miss him,” Spears-Jennings said. “He couldn’t come up here because I don’t have a backyard. So just go see him at my mom’s house and vibe with my family. Spend good family time.”
The kid is living an NFL dream, wearing the black and gold, earning his place among the best football players on the planet.
And he misses his dog.
“My dog’s name is Blu, B-L-U, and he’s a Cane Corso.”
Blu.
There’s a wonderful innocence to the whole thing.
Spears-Jennings has entered a profession where nearly everything is measured. His speed, his strength, his assignments, his mistakes. Every movement examined by coaches, opponents and people who have never met him.
But Blu doesn’t care about any of that.
He doesn’t know the Steelers are 6-2. He couldn’t identify the AFC North standings if someone taped them to his food bowl.
And he certainly doesn’t care how many snaps his owner played against Cleveland.
He just knows his guy has been gone.
And his guy is coming home.
But somewhere in Texas, a father will walk through a doorway and become the most important person in the room.
And somewhere else, a Cane Corso named Blu will get his buddy back.
Neither moment will appear on an NFL highlight reel.
They might be the best moments of the entire week even after beating Cleveland for first place in the AFC North.
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